My husband has two perfect babies that were born before we met. He got a vasectomy after, and we are all very close. After a year and half of dating, we decided we’d like a baby that belonged to both of us. But reversing a vasectomy is crazy expensive, money we don’t have. Like, about 10k.
I told myself if we weren’t able to start trying by next summer, I’d pull the plug and be happy with the kiddos we have and be ok with freedom in our early 40s. Recently, we found a clinic charging about 3k for a reversal. I get a 3k bonus in June. Feels like fate.