{"id":9767,"date":"2024-07-02T18:42:00","date_gmt":"2024-07-02T16:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=9767"},"modified":"2024-07-02T18:42:00","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T16:42:00","slug":"my-new-employee-the-parent-of-my-childs-bully-tried-to-bully-me-at-work-i-taught-her-an-unforgettable-lesson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=9767","title":{"rendered":"My New Employee, the Parent of My Child\u2019s Bully, Tried to Bully Me at Work \u2014 I Taught Her an Unforgettable Lesson"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My story is about how karma placed my child\u2019s bully right in my hands so I could exact some justice for my traumatized family. It all began with her spreading lies about me to my colleagues. But what she didn\u2019t expect was that I\u2019d retaliate most brutally!<\/p>\n<p>Hi everyone, Diana here, and my tale is all about how karma helped me get revenge against a woman whose child bullied my baby boy. The woman ended up losing her job. Let me explain how all this went down.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/a1d2834d8259e57d67cfc8336f41c230c63d17b16163ac117b0310d162dba73a.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"563\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/a1d2834d8259e57d67cfc8336f41c230c63d17b16163ac117b0310d162dba73a.webp 375w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/a1d2834d8259e57d67cfc8336f41c230c63d17b16163ac117b0310d162dba73a-200x300.webp 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><br \/>\nA sad boy being bullied at school | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n<p>For some background to my tale, I had spent several years living a stressful life when I finally received a promotion last month. The promotion wasn\u2019t the only upside because the financial raise was life-changing.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m also now working out of a different office that is gloriously much closer to home. The promotion also meant I\u2019d be doing work I care about, and I\u2019d have more time with my family. It was a win-win situation for me all around, and I couldn\u2019t be happier!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/92da7e8b38ef23dc5f4542fd2bfadb41c64f1f863e19f63ca681377cb97558ce.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"384\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9769\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/92da7e8b38ef23dc5f4542fd2bfadb41c64f1f863e19f63ca681377cb97558ce.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/92da7e8b38ef23dc5f4542fd2bfadb41c64f1f863e19f63ca681377cb97558ce-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/92da7e8b38ef23dc5f4542fd2bfadb41c64f1f863e19f63ca681377cb97558ce-446x297.webp 446w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nA man and woman shaking hands in an office | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n<p>This all felt like a dream I had woken up from one day, and I thanked God daily for where I was. Just before I got promoted, the company I work for filled an open role at my new office location. I didn\u2019t take part in the hiring process for this person.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, I was shocked when I discovered who it was. They had hired the parent of my child\u2019s bully, Tommy. Now, what you need to understand is that my child being bullied was one of the things that caused my family strife for years.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/59f3fe76056ffca1ef6fd3e0b6bd8989cc0ed3e58b699006fc9c007161481f01.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"384\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9770\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/59f3fe76056ffca1ef6fd3e0b6bd8989cc0ed3e58b699006fc9c007161481f01.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/59f3fe76056ffca1ef6fd3e0b6bd8989cc0ed3e58b699006fc9c007161481f01-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/59f3fe76056ffca1ef6fd3e0b6bd8989cc0ed3e58b699006fc9c007161481f01-446x297.webp 446w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nA boy bullying another child at school | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n<p>I am not talking about a few meetings with the principal kind of bullying situation. We almost lost our child because of Tommy! My husband and I ended up taking drastic measures to remedy the situation and protect our son.<\/p>\n<p>We moved our child and their siblings to a different school. Then we sold our home and moved to the other side of the county. You all might think I\u2019m joking, but things were bad! At one point, we had to involve the police!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/b8f3131c05dd46cd7d66fbe491df2b377d753f74d72fe1093da68a75da4a9e10.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"384\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9771\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/b8f3131c05dd46cd7d66fbe491df2b377d753f74d72fe1093da68a75da4a9e10.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/b8f3131c05dd46cd7d66fbe491df2b377d753f74d72fe1093da68a75da4a9e10-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/b8f3131c05dd46cd7d66fbe491df2b377d753f74d72fe1093da68a75da4a9e10-446x297.webp 446w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nA couple relocating | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n<p>This resulted in us being granted a restraining order against Tommy. He is now finally facing other legal consequences for his behavior. Both children are still quite young, so I\u2019m still shocked at the cruel and awful things I saw my child go through at the hands of another kid.<\/p>\n<p>My husband and I felt so helpless and out of control. We begged the school and his parents to intervene before involving the authorities. After this long and painful ordeal, our family life finally settled down.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/3f36de2b433a937dda94ef4d113f5cc46615bf0e20293da975fed838050416a9.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"384\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9772\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/3f36de2b433a937dda94ef4d113f5cc46615bf0e20293da975fed838050416a9.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/3f36de2b433a937dda94ef4d113f5cc46615bf0e20293da975fed838050416a9-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/3f36de2b433a937dda94ef4d113f5cc46615bf0e20293da975fed838050416a9-446x297.webp 446w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nA couple talking to a teacher | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n<p>This new work opportunity felt like a new start for us after the pain and fear we\u2019d gone through. My precious child was finally beginning to heal and get his life and joy back. We\u2019re all in therapy as a family and individually to help recover from this.<\/p>\n<p>But my peace of mind was shattered when I discovered my company hired Tommy\u2019s mother, Janet. What was worse was that I would be managing her! On my first day of meeting her, she went pale when she saw me! I\u2019m pretty sure I did the same!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d16bf36ebd3bf96a15eb9f32e51add9be4e317bf5515951dbbceb672ee54225e.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"576\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9773\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d16bf36ebd3bf96a15eb9f32e51add9be4e317bf5515951dbbceb672ee54225e.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d16bf36ebd3bf96a15eb9f32e51add9be4e317bf5515951dbbceb672ee54225e-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d16bf36ebd3bf96a15eb9f32e51add9be4e317bf5515951dbbceb672ee54225e-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d16bf36ebd3bf96a15eb9f32e51add9be4e317bf5515951dbbceb672ee54225e-350x350.webp 350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nTwo women reacting in shock after meeting at the office | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n<p>I know everyone else on my team and have a great working relationship with them. Because I didn\u2019t know how to handle having Janet working with me, I avoided talking to her face-to-face. I only communicated with her when I had to, and it was always in writing.<\/p>\n<p>Tired of tiptoeing around her, I confessed my situation to a close colleague, Danny. After confiding in him about what Janet\u2019s son did to mine and how we had to uproot our lives, I asked, \u201cWhat should I do? I\u2019m not quitting and I\u2019m not taking a demotion.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Danny\u2019s eyes widened in shock. \u201cAre you serious? Why didn\u2019t you say something sooner!?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI didn\u2019t want to make a big deal about this unnecessarily. But let\u2019s focus on the matter at hand.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Wringing my hands, I questioned, \u201cShould I meet with Janet and human resources (HR) to discuss this and set expectations?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t know, Diana, this all seems a bit complicated,\u201d Danny replied while thinking hard about my situation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know if I go to HR, it will feel like I\u2019m betraying my child and family. But professionally, I know it\u2019s an option,\u201d I said, mulling things over.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m sorry you\u2019re in this mess,\u201d Danny consoled me. \u201cWhat other options do you think you have?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMaybe I ignore it and hope she\u2019s so uncomfortable she quits? Or perhaps I could ask HR about offering her a transfer?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Without waiting for a reply, I continued.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe thing is, at a certain point in the last year, she behaved as badly as her child did,\u201d I explained my conundrum further. \u201cThe judge considered including her in the restraining order but was instead issued a warning on the record.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve even checked, and the two of us working together isn\u2019t a violation of the restraining order,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p>Before I could decide on what to do, Danny reluctantly replied, \u201cLook, Diana, you need to know something about Janet. Can we talk privately in your office during lunch?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>With my curiosity piqued, I agreed.<\/p>\n<p>When lunchtime came around, I couldn\u2019t wait to see Danny. I welcomed him in and asked him to get right to it because this issue had been eating me up for weeks!<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOkay, so you didn\u2019t hear this from me, but Janet has been SPREADING LIES about you!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat?! What kind of lies? She hasn\u2019t even been here that long?\u201d I questioned, feeling dumbfounded.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe\u2019s telling anyone who\u2019ll listen that they should stay away from YOU. The woman claims you\u2019re toxic and dangerous, and says you slept with her husband and broke up their marriage!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I was stunned!<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t help but laugh at the absurdity of it all! \u201cThat\u2019s ridiculous!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYep, we all know that because we know the type of person you are. That\u2019s why I didn\u2019t bother saying anything to you until now,\u201d Danny told me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was trying to keep my personal life separate from work, and I didn\u2019t want to bring that drama here,\u201d I explained. \u201cBut it\u2019s becoming impossible to ignore because it seems Janet is taking my silence as a stepping stone for her to tarnish my image.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think she\u2019s taking a leaf out of her son\u2019s book, or perhaps it\u2019s the other way around. But she\u2019s bullying YOU indirectly!\u201d Danny pointed out.<\/p>\n<p>When he said it like that, a light bulb flickered in my mind! I WAS being bullied like my son! It seemed that kind of behavior ran in the family! I\u2019D HAD ENOUGH! IT WAS TIME TO TEACH JANET A LESSON!<\/p>\n<p>I DECIDED TO TAKE ACTION! I thanked Danny for his honesty and support and told him I\u2019d figure out how to handle this mess once and for all. \u201cWell, good luck!\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>As much as I hadn\u2019t stood by during my son\u2019s bullying, I refused to allow it to happen to me! And I wasn\u2019t going to sit back for months while she continued spreading lies about me. I decided to attack fire with fire!<\/p>\n<p>I started where I could, in the workplace. I was determined to get to the bottom of how Janet was even hired. My research began with me digging into her employment records. I found out that Janet hadn\u2019t met the usual standards for our team.<\/p>\n<p>She hadn\u2019t completed her mandatory fingerprinting and background check. This was odd since our company was strict about these requirements. \u201cSomething\u2019s not right,\u201d I muttered to myself as I pored over the documents.<\/p>\n<p>I called Danny over into my office and closed the door before telling him what I had discovered. \u201cWhat do you mean?\u201d he asked, looking over at my laptop.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJanet shouldn\u2019t have been hired. She never completed her background check,\u201d I replied. \u201cI\u2019m going to dig deeper.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll right, just make sure you cover your bases and don\u2019t end up getting fired along with her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As I continued my investigation, I discovered that Janet had bribed one of our office staff to bypass the fingerprinting process! Furious, I gathered all the evidence and went straight to HR. This time I decided not to involve Danny because I didn\u2019t want him to get into any trouble.<\/p>\n<p>After all, he was a good guy and an excellent team player, unlike someone else I knew. \u201cThere\u2019s something you need to see,\u201d I told our HR manager, Linda, as I handed her the documents. Linda\u2019s eyes widened as she scanned through the evidence.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThese are serious accusations. We need to address this immediately.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Linda called Janet into a meeting and laid out the evidence in front of her. I had hidden away in the corridor until Janet went in, and then I snuck over to the closed door and eavesdropped. I had some paperwork with me to pretend like I had stopped to concentrate on something if someone walked by.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJanet, we discovered that you bribed an employee to bypass the mandatory fingerprinting and background check,\u201d Linda said sternly. \u201cThis is a serious violation of our policies,\u201d I heard the HR woman say.<\/p>\n<p>I later heard from Linda that Janet\u2019s face went pale. \u201cI\u2026 I can explain,\u201d she stammered.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou have ten days to complete the fingerprinting process,\u201d Linda continued. She ignored Janet\u2019s attempts to justify her actions. \u201cIf you fail to do so, your employment WILL be terminated.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Linda revealed that Janet nodded meekly before perking up and agreeing to comply. But as the days passed, she missed her appointments and ignored calls from HR. Eventually, she stopped showing up to work altogether!<\/p>\n<p>Finally, the day came when HR had to end her employment. The RELIEF I felt was immense!<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe\u2019s gone,\u201d Danny said, giving me a reassuring high five. \u201cYou did the right thing!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThanks, Danny,\u201d I replied, feeling a weight lift off my shoulders. With Janet gone, the atmosphere at work improved dramatically! My team was even more supportive, and I felt more at ease. My family was doing better than ever, and my amazing kiddo was healing and finding joy again!<\/p>\n<p>As I settled into my new role, I hired a new team member, Emily, to replace Janet. She was kind, polite, and a perfect fit for our team. Life was finally falling into place, and I felt a heavy burden lift off my chest!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My story is about how karma placed my child\u2019s bully right in my hands so I could exact some justice for my traumatized family. It all began with her spreading lies about me to my colleagues. But what she didn\u2019t expect was that I\u2019d retaliate most brutally! 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