{"id":8638,"date":"2024-04-20T19:04:29","date_gmt":"2024-04-20T17:04:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=8638"},"modified":"2024-04-20T19:04:29","modified_gmt":"2024-04-20T17:04:29","slug":"bill-clinton-and-hillary-have-been-married-for-46-years-she-rejected-him-twice-before-saying-i-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=8638","title":{"rendered":"Bill Clinton and Hillary have been married for 46 years \u2013 she rejected him twice before saying \u201cI do\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bill Clinton became one of the most famous people in the world when he was sworn in as US President in 1993. Since then, the Arkansas native has had a long and successful career as a politician, though the infamous affair with intern Monica Lewinsky overshadowed a considerable chunk of his legacy in the White House.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, despite the affair, which was undeniably a massive scandal, Bill has remained married to his wife, Hillary Clinton, for more than 45 years. The two met while studying at college, and haven\u2019t left each other\u2019s sides since, despite enduring many tough times.<\/p>\n<p>As it turns out, Hillary wasn\u2019t sure about marrying Bill in the first place \u2013 it took him three times of asking before she said yes.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s all you need to know about Bill and Hillary Clinton\u2019s marriage.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary2-768x1152-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"1152\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8639\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary2-768x1152-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary2-768x1152-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary2-768x1152-1-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nShutterstock\/lev radin<\/p>\n<p>Bill Clinton was born William Jefferson Blythe III on August 19, 1946, in Hope, Arkansas. At the time, his mother, Virginia Kelley, had experienced an immense tragedy, as his father passed away in a traffic accident just three months before Bill was born.<\/p>\n<p>Bill Clinton \u2013 early life<br \/>\nWhen he was four years of age, his mother married Roger Clinton. However, his stepfather wasn\u2019t a good man at all. Reportedly, he was always drunk and beat Bill\u2019s mother.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis sounds crazy but I never hated my stepfather, Roger Clinton. Even after he pulled the trigger in here, when he was drunk, even after he beat my mother \u2014 even after I got big enough to stop him from beating my mother,\u201d Bill said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI had some understanding that he was a good man and couldn\u2019t whip his drinking problem. And that he was full of demons that he couldn\u2019t control it and he took it out in destructive, hateful ways. I hated what he did, but I never hated him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At school, he never told any of his friends what was happening at home. In his book, Bill Clinton wrote that he was living \u201ctwo parallel lives\u201d from his childhood into his adult years, all the way to when he became a politician. What his stepfather did was his dark secret.<\/p>\n<p>Despite what Roger Clinton did, Bill decided to take his last name when in high school. He kept the first and second names of his biological father, William Jefferson, but not his surname.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton2-768x1150-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"1150\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton2-768x1150-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton2-768x1150-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton2-768x1150-1-684x1024.jpg 684w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nShutterstock\/Larry St. Pierre<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think the fact that I was born without a father, and that I spent a lifetime trying to put together a picture of one also had a lot to do with how I turned out,\u201d Bill explained.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGood and not so good. But I think on balance, more good than bad. But it had a lot to do with it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Meeting John F. Kennedy<br \/>\nBill went on to become an outstanding student. He excelled at school, and at the same time, was considered a fantastic saxophone player. As a result, many thought he would pursue a career as a professional musician. Today, of course, we know that fate had different plans.<\/p>\n<p>When he was in high school, a very special meeting would set Bill on course for politics. As a delegate to Boys Nation, he visited the White House Rose Garden, where he met then-President John F Kennedy. The picture of the two shaking hands has become quite legendary.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was about the third or fourth person in, and\u2026I sort of muscled my way up (to the front),\u201d Bill once recalled of the meeting.<\/p>\n<p>On the way home from the meeting, several of Clinton\u2019s friends recalled that Bill couldn\u2019t stop talking about the fascinating thing that had just happened.<\/p>\n<p>Future Minnesota Congressman Jim Ramstad recalled Clinton telling him: \u201cSomeday, I\u2019m going to have that job.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bill went on to attend Georgetown University. Then, in 1968, he won a Rhodes Scholarship to attend Oxford University, and later on earned his law degree at Yale University.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/clintonkennedy1-768x956-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"956\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8641\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/clintonkennedy1-768x956-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/clintonkennedy1-768x956-1-241x300.jpg 241w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nFuture president Bill Clinton, a teenage boy, shakes the hand of President John F. Kennedy (1917 \u2013 1963) as other American Legion Boys Nation delegates look on during a trip to the White House in Washington DC. (Photo by Arnold Sachs\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>Not only did his time at Yale significantly increase the chances of him pursuing a political career moving forward, but it\u2019s also where he met the love of his life, a woman named Hillary Rodham.<\/p>\n<p>Bill Clinton \u2013 love-story with Hillary Clinton<br \/>\nBill and Hillary were both studying law at Yale. When speaking at the Democratic National Convention in 2016, he recalled his first memories of her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn the spring of 1971, I met a girl,\u201d Bill said. \u201cThe first time I saw her, we were appropriately enough in a class on political and civil rights. She had thick blonde hair, big glasses, wore no makeup. And she exuded this sense of strength and self-possession that I found magnetic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Even though they had met on campus several times, one particular moment in 1971 changed everything.<\/p>\n<p>Both Hillary and Bill were studying in opposite parts of the law library. But Hillary noticed that Bill was looking at her. The young woman decided to put her book down and walked over to Bill to have a chat about it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLook, if you\u2019re going to keep staring at me, and now I\u2019m staring back. We at least oughta know each other\u2019s name. I\u2019m Hillary Rodham, who are you?\u201d Bill recalled Hillary telling him.<\/p>\n<p>At the time, the future President was speechless. He introduced himself, and not long after, the two met again. Bill had grown fond of Hillary and asked her out on a date.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe exuded this sense of strength and self-possession that I found magnetic,\u201d Bill recalled during the 2016 Democratic National Convention.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton1-768x496-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"496\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8642\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton1-768x496-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton1-768x496-1-300x194.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nPresidential hopeful Bill Clinton is joined by his daughter Chelsea (L) and wife Hillary during his campaign for the presidency. (Photo by Brooks Kraft LLC\/Sygma via Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI just went ahead and asked her to take a walk down to the art museum. We\u2019ve been walking, talking, and laughing together ever since.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Why Hillary Clinton turned Bill down twice<br \/>\nIt turned out that both Hillary and Bill were interested in politics. They began dating, and together worked on George McGovern\u2019s presidential campaign the following year. Even though he lost the bid, Hillary and Bill were content with their work. Not least that they were working very well together \u2013 something Bill hoped to make that a permanent thing.<\/p>\n<p>In 1973, while in England, he proposed to Hillary. Unfortunately, though, Hillary turned Bill Clinton down, telling him that she needed more time. With that said, however, she was deeply in love with him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBill was in a different universe. It was a different level of connection. I felt like he was the most interesting man I ever met, and ever would meet,\u201d Hillary said in a Hulu documentary.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking with Girls star Lena Dunham in 2016, Hillary explained that she was \u201cterrified\u201d of losing her identity and getting lost in the \u201ckind of wake\u201d of \u201cBill\u2019s force-of-nature-personality.\u201d Not only that, but the aspiring young woman wasn\u2019t sure that she was able to commit to a future in the spotlight \u2013 she knew that Bill wanted to become a politician.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary1-768x508-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"508\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8643\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary1-768x508-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary1-768x508-1-300x198.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nShutterstock\/Joseph Sohm<\/p>\n<p>A year later, Bill asked her to marry him again. But, just as the first time, she said no.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI married my best friend\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cHe said, \u2018Well, I\u2019m not asking you again until you\u2019re ready to say yes.\u2019 And that was a large part of the ambivalence and the worry that I wouldn\u2019t necessarily know who I was or what I could do if I got married to someone who was going to chart a path that he was incredibly clear about,\u201d Hillary said.<\/p>\n<p>Bill gave Hillary time \u2013 and when he asked a third time, she said yes. So in 1975, the couple wed in the living room at their Arkansas home. Only a small number of family and friends attended the ceremony.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI married my best friend. I was still in awe, after more than four years of being around her, at how smart, and strong, and loving, and caring she was,\u201d Bill once said of their wedding day.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was a big leap of faith, and I think most marriages are,\u201d Hillary added.<\/p>\n<p>In 1980, the couple welcomed their first child, daughter Chelsea Clinton.<\/p>\n<p>Bill and Hillary chased their political dreams, eventually making it to the White House. Bill Clinton became the Governor of Arkansas in 1978 and was inducted as President of the United States in 1993. At the same time, Hillary had become one of the country\u2019s most influential and skilled lawyers.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary3-768x529-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"529\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8644\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary3-768x529-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary3-768x529-1-300x207.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nShutterstock\/mark reinstein<\/p>\n<p>However, Bill\u2019s eight-year tenure in the White House was to be overshadowed by the big scandal involving Monica Lewinsky.<\/p>\n<p>Bill Clinton \u2013 Monica Lewinsky scandal<br \/>\nAt 22 years of age, Lewinsky began working at the White House. She and President Bill Clinton started flirting not long after she had started, and it developed into an affair that lasted for two years. <\/p>\n<p>One day, Lewinsky told President Clinton: \u201cI have a crush on you,\u201d to which he replied, \u201cWell, do you want to come into the back office?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t until 1998 that Clinton and Lewinsky\u2019s affair became known to the world. Lewinsky\u2019s phone had been tapped and her calls recorded in secret, and in the end, she had to testify before a grand jury. Then, finally, the report \u2013 consisting of over 3,000 pages \u2013 was made public, with all the details of Clinton and Lewinsky\u2019s encounters. <\/p>\n<p>President Clinton called her a liar, denying that he had had a relationship \u201cwith that woman.\u201d Lewinsky said she\u2019d do anything to, \u201chave my anonymity back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat people could read the transcripts was horrific enough,\u201d Lewinsky said in a TED talk. \u201cBut a few weeks later the audio tapes [the recorded telephone calls] were aired on TV, and significant portions made available online. The public humiliation was excruciating. Life was almost unbearable.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary5-768x740-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"740\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8645\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary5-768x740-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclintonhillary5-768x740-1-300x289.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nShuttterstock\/Evan El-Amin<\/p>\n<p>The scandal could\u2019ve destroyed Clinton\u2019s marriage. However, Hillary decided to stick around. In her 2003 memoir, she wrote that choosing to stay with Bill was one of \u201cthe most difficult decisions I have made in my life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI couldn\u2019t imagine how he could have done that to me\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cI was furious, I was dumbfounded, I was \u2026 just beside myself with anger and disappointment,\u201d Hillary said in a 2003 interview with Barbara Walters. \u201cYou know, I couldn\u2019t imagine how he could have done that to me or to anyone else.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After leaving the White House in 2001, Bill and Hillary moved to Chappaqua, New York. There, the former president consulted several humanitarian and public policy groups while Hillary entered the political sphere.<\/p>\n<p>She ran and won a seat in the Senate, serving for New York from 2001 to 2009. Then, Hillary returned to the White House, serving as Secretary of State to then-president Barack Obama. She ran for president in 2016, losing the election to Donald Trump.<\/p>\n<p>Despite the tough defeat, Bill and Hillary had other, beautiful things to tend to. They became grandparents for the first time in 2014, a second time in 2016, and a third time in 2019.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton7-768x960-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"960\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8646\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton7-768x960-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/billclinton7-768x960-1-240x300.jpg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nNEW YORK, NEW YORK \u2013 MARCH 17: Bill Clinton is seen visiting his daughter Chelsea Clinton on March 17, 2019 in New York City. (Photo by Say Cheese!\/GC Images)<\/p>\n<p>Earlier this year, Hillary and Bill were seen spending some quality time with their three children as they went on a ride on the merry-go-round.<\/p>\n<p>Bill Clinton &#038; Hillary Clinton today<br \/>\nDespite some very difficult times, Hillary and Bill Clinton\u2019s love is still going strong. In 2022, the couple celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary. Bill Clinton took to Twitter to show his love for his wife.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOctober 11th was a beautiful day 45 years ago. Still is. The bride was beautiful too. And still is,\u201d Bill Clinton tweeted, alongside a photo of the couple.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHappy Anniversary, Hillary. I love you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cForty-five years. Never a dull moment, and you\u2019re still my best friend,\u201d Hillary wrote on Instagram. \u201cLove you, Bill.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>What do you think of Bill and Hillary Clinton\u2019s long-term marriage? Give us your thoughts in the comment section. 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