{"id":6090,"date":"2023-12-01T15:09:41","date_gmt":"2023-12-01T14:09:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=6090"},"modified":"2023-12-01T15:09:41","modified_gmt":"2023-12-01T14:09:41","slug":"woman-sparks-debate-after-saying-she-wont-leave-her-daughter-alone-with-male-relatives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=6090","title":{"rendered":"Woman Sparks Debate After Saying She Won\u2019t Leave Her Daughter Alone With Male Relatives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Family should be the one group of people that you trust above everyone else. But, let\u2019s face it, this is not the case in every household across the planet. This has inspired one TikTok user to post a video about how she wishes to raise her daughter.<\/p>\n<p>She will not leave her child alone with male relatives nor will they be allowed to attend sleepovers. She sparked up quite a debate among other parents. Some agree with her, but others say her choices are somewhat controversial.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Screenshot-2023-08-31-at-11-59-33-Aubz-@theorganicmami-TikTok.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"325\" height=\"551\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6091\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Screenshot-2023-08-31-at-11-59-33-Aubz-@theorganicmami-TikTok.png 325w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Screenshot-2023-08-31-at-11-59-33-Aubz-@theorganicmami-TikTok-177x300.png 177w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 325px) 100vw, 325px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aubrey is a mother of two and has shared some powerful views on how she chooses to raise her children. The modern world is a wild environment, so this mother ensures her kids grow up with as much safety as possible.<\/p>\n<p>On Tiktok, Audrey goes by @theorganicmami, and she has just over 2000 followers, but they\u2019re climbing by the day. She made a get-ready-with-me video on her TikTok account where she openly expressed her methods for raising her daughter.<\/p>\n<p>Audrey started the video off by saying she refuses to let her daughter sleep over at someone\u2019s house. Most people would agree. But, not many would doubt their own family members, and not allow them to sleep at their grandparent\u2019s house.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@theorganicmami\/video\/7267670943890345262\" data-video-id=\"7267670943890345262\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\" >\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@theorganicmami\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@theorganicmami?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@theorganicmami<\/a> Controversial ways I\u2019m raising my daughter \u2728 call me crazy IDC \ud83d\ude02 <a title=\"controversialmom\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/controversialmom?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#controversialmom<\/a> <a title=\"controversialwaysimgoingtoraisemykids\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/controversialwaysimgoingtoraisemykids?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#controversialwaysimgoingtoraisemykids<\/a> <a title=\"raisingmydaughter\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/raisingmydaughter?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#raisingmydaughter<\/a> <a title=\"controversialmomtopics\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/controversialmomtopics?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#controversialmomtopics<\/a> <a title=\"controversialopinion\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/controversialopinion?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#controversialopinion<\/a>  <a title=\"raisingstrongwomen\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/raisingstrongwomen?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#raisingstrongwomen<\/a> <a title=\"crunchymom\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/crunchymom?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#crunchymom<\/a> <a title=\"chattygrwm\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/chattygrwm?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#chattygrwm<\/a> <a title=\"sahmgrwmroutine\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/sahmgrwmroutine?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#sahmgrwmroutine<\/a> <a title=\"youngfirsttimemom\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/youngfirsttimemom?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#youngfirsttimemom<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c Storytelling - Adriel\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/Storytelling-7031101555747080194?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c Storytelling &#8211; Adriel<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Audrey will not even allow her daughter to be alone with her male relatives. \u201cNo sleepovers,\u201d she said. \u201cNope. Not even with family members. And she will never be left alone with a male. I don\u2019t care if you\u2019re the grandparent, the uncle, or the cousin.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So, neither her daughter nor her son will be allowed to go out late because it\u2019s not safe for either of them in Audrey\u2019s eyes. \u201cFor instance, me letting my son go out late but not my daughter because it\u2019s too dangerous for a woman,\u201d said Audrey. \u201cI\u2019m just going to treat them both the same.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to showing affection, Audrey expressed that her daughter will not have to receive hugs or kisses if she doesn\u2019t want to. This applies to friends, as well as her relatives. \u201cSecrets will not be kept from your parents. And if you\u2019re one of those people now saying \u2018I\u2019ll give you candy when your mum\u2019s not here, just don\u2019t tell her\u2019, that\u2019s the quickest way to never see us again,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, Audrey is adamant that her daughter will be free to feel emotions the way she chooses. Nor will she have to go through public schooling. \u201cShe doesn\u2019t have to respect you if you don\u2019t also respect her, as a child she still will have opinions and emotions and she is allowed to feel a certain way,\u201d Audrey shared.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, the comments section was filled with a diverse amount of opinions. Some parents were completely on board with her plans. One person wrote, \u201c[People are] getting mad about the no sleepovers rule, but it\u2019s actually good speaking from my childhood experiences.\u201d Another wrote, \u201cMy mom did the no sleepovers thing [with] me when I was younger and I was upset but later found out one I was invited to 3 girls got [sexually assaulted] by the stepdad.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@theorganicmami\/video\/7271318555470204203\" data-video-id=\"7271318555470204203\" style=\"max-width: 605px;min-width: 325px;\" >\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@theorganicmami\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@theorganicmami?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@theorganicmami<\/a> Teaching our children about dangerous \u201ctricky\u201d people, consent and boundaries! Thank you @caitlin&#38;chelsea for sharing the signs and ways to teach our children about these people! <a title=\"childsafetyadvocate\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/childsafetyadvocate?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#childsafetyadvocate<\/a> <a title=\"childsafetyawareness\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/childsafetyawareness?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#childsafetyawareness<\/a> <a title=\"protectourchildren\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/protectourchildren?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#protectourchildren<\/a> <a title=\"protectourkids\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/protectourkids?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#protectourkids<\/a> <a title=\"endsexualas\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/endsexualas?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#endsexualas<\/a> <a title=\"raisingourchildren\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/raisingourchildren?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#raisingourchildren<\/a> <a title=\"childconsentmatters\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/childconsentmatters?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#childconsentmatters<\/a> <a title=\"controversialparenting\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/controversialparenting?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#controversialparenting<\/a> <a title=\"unsafepeople\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/unsafepeople?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#unsafepeople<\/a> <a title=\"positiveparenting\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/positiveparenting?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#positiveparenting<\/a> <a title=\"childconsent\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/childconsent?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#childconsent<\/a> <a title=\"strangerdangerbeawarechildren\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/strangerdangerbeawarechildren?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#strangerdangerbeawarechildren<\/a> <a title=\"bewarechildren\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/bewarechildren?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#bewarechildren<\/a> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c What Was I Made For (Piano) - T I H H\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/What-Was-I-Made-For-Piano-7257900204802754562?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c What Was I Made For (Piano) &#8211; T I H H<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, some people were confused by her decisions. Many expressed that the best memories they had were at sleepovers and that her children are going to miss out on a lot of fun. One teenager wrote from her own experience of not being allowed to attend sleepovers. \u201cI\u2019m not allowed to have sleepovers and I hate my mom for it [so much] I missed out on a ton of stuff,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n<p>Another person wrote, \u201cIf you know the parents and the kid, i don\u2019t see the harm in sleepovers, they\u2019re honestly some of my best memories.\u201d Lastly, another person asked her why she doesn\u2019t trust her own male relatives. They wrote, \u201cWhy do you not trust your brother or dad? Do you leave her alone with her dad??\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Family should be the one group of people that you trust above everyone else. But, let\u2019s face it, this is not the case in every household across the planet. 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