{"id":2565,"date":"2023-10-10T08:36:38","date_gmt":"2023-10-10T06:36:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=2565"},"modified":"2023-10-10T08:36:38","modified_gmt":"2023-10-10T06:36:38","slug":"arnold-schwarzenegger-accuses-parents-of-raising-wimps-he-once-tossed-daughters-shoes-in-fire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=2565","title":{"rendered":"Arnold Schwarzenegger accuses parents of raising \u2018wimps,\u2019 he once tossed daughter\u2019s shoes in fire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you thought Arnold Schwarzenegger as the Terminator was terrifying, his role as a father is even more frightening.<\/p>\n<p>The former governor and ex-professional bodybuilder is now accusing parents of being too easy on their children\u2026 And his own parenting style just goes to show how serious he is!<\/p>\n<p>Keep reading on to find out exactly what he has to say\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kids should \u201cstruggle\u201d<br \/>\nSpeaking with Howard Stern on his SiriusXM show, Arnold Schwarzenegger, who\u2019s known to be a tough guy both on screen and in real life, said that people today give up way too quickly.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-150330239-768x511-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"511\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2566\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-150330239-768x511-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-150330239-768x511-1-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nArnold Schwarzenegger with two of his sons, Patrick and Christopher. Credit \/ Gregg DeGuire \/ WireImage \/ Getty.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnybody that tries to baby themselves, and pamper themselves and protect themselves \u2013 \u2018Oh, I don\u2019t want to feel bad, I don\u2019t really want to go through any discomfort\u2019 \u2013 It\u2019s over!\u201d Schwarzenegger continued: \u201cYou\u2019re never going to get there. It\u2019s just the way it is. You have to be able to struggle.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The actor insists kids need to feel the \u201cstruggle\u201d and experience \u201cpain, misery and discomfort\u201d to succeed in life, and has been urging parents to \u201cnot over baby.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Earlier, the 76-year-old actor \u2013 who was on Jimmy Kimmel Live! promoting his new self-help book, Be Useful: Seven Tools for Life \u2013 admitted he was a very strict parent.<\/p>\n<p>When Kimmel asked if he was a tough parent, the 7x winner of Mr. Olympia replied: \u201cWell, it depends what your definition is. For I think the way I grew up, I was lenient. But I think for American standards probably strict.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Teaching his children hard lessons<br \/>\nThe Austrian actor is a father of five. With ex-wife Maria Shriver, he has daughters Katherine, 33, and Christina, 31, and sons Patrick, 30, and Christopher, 26. He is also dad to 26-year-old Joseph with Mildred Baena.<\/p>\n<p>Schwarzenegger explained how he disciplined his children with a couple of examples involving one of his sons, and his daughter.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-868374424-768x512-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"512\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2567\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-868374424-768x512-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-868374424-768x512-1-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\n(L-R) Christina Schwarzenegger, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Maria Shriver, and Katherine Schwarzenegger. Credit \/ Emma McIntyre \/ Getty.<\/p>\n<p>The first was when a nine-year-old Patrick solicited the help of his nanny to make his bed, which the father says \u201cwas not allowed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo, I came in one time and the bed was made so immaculately, that I looked at it and I said, \u2018Patrick, did you do that?\u2019 And he said, \u2018No, I didn\u2019t.\u2019\u201d The Predator star continued: \u201cI grabbed the mattress, opened up the doors, and threw it off the balcony down into the swimming pool! It gives an example.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Patrick was responsible for getting the mattress, and the pillows from the pool: \u201cI threw everything out there!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The True Lies star then told the story of Katherine and how she refused to put her shoes away.<\/p>\n<p>Her bitter lesson came with a pair of burned shoes.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CvVSYduSbkg\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CvVSYduSbkg\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CvVSYduSbkg\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Katherine Schwarzenegger (@katherineschwarzenegger)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Schwarzenegger said: \u201cKatherine comes over with (her 3-year-old daughter) Lyla and she says, \u2018Lyla, I told you already not to put the shoes there. Keep your shoes on or you put them away, but you don\u2019t leave them there by the stand in front of the fireplace because you know what Daddy did? When I left my shoes there twice? The third time, he burned them in front of me and I cried.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lyla Marie is the big sister to Eloise Christina, 17 months, who was born to Katherine and Guardians of the Galaxy star Chris Pratt.<\/p>\n<p>Proud of his influential parenting style, The Running Man star adds: \u201cNow she uses the same methods which she cried over and that she complained about.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The man shared that a child has to learn how to \u201cto accept pain, misery and discomfort, all the things that you don\u2019t like.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo many young kids these days shy away from that, but you have to be attracted to that\u2026Don\u2019t start creating a generation of wimps and weak people\u2026 Let\u2019s not over-baby people. Let\u2019s go and teach kids to be tough, to do sports, to study and struggle and go through these kinds of painful moments sometimes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Arnold Schwarzenegger \u201cf***ed up\u201d<br \/>\nIn the same interview with Stern, Schwarzenegger also admitted he \u201cf***ed up\u201d when he had an affair Mildred Baena, the family\u2019s housekeeper, which led to their divorce in 2021.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-2005325-768x573-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"573\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2568\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-2005325-768x573-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/GettyImages-2005325-768x573-1-300x224.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><br \/>\nArnold Schwarzenegger with then-wife Maria Shriver in 2003. Credit \/ Pascal Le Segretain \/ Getty.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of his relationship with Shriver, the star of Kindergarten Cop said: \u201cWe never left the [first] chapter. Because remember, it\u2019s not like we had a feud. We didn\u2019t have a fight. It\u2019s just my f***** up, right? We always made it very clear that the kids should not suffer because of that.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd she has her things, her relationship, I have mine\u2026Even though it\u2019s a different relationship, there\u2019s no reason for me to feel anything other than love for her\u201d said the star, who\u2019s now in a relationship with Heather Mulligan.<\/p>\n<p>He told Stern: \u201cThat was, without any doubt, the biggest setback and the biggest failure. You can\u2019t point the finger at anyone else.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>What he doesn\u2019t consider a failure, are his now adult children who are applying his lessons in their own homes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s the funniest thing when Katherine comes over, she loves bragging to other people about how bossy I was, how tough I was when she grew up and how she didn\u2019t get away with anything.\u201d Explaining that his unique tactics to parenting are legendary in the family, the actor continued: \u201cFunny enough, those kinds of things are what they bring up all the time with tremendous laughter and tell other people as a joke.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s always fun to get a glimpse into life of a celebrity and Arnold Schwarzenegger is hilarious but also quite frightening! His lessons are lasting a lifetime and spreading across generations and we\u2019re sure that no child in the family will ever leave shoes lying around!<\/p>\n<p>Please share this story and let\u2019s see what others have to say about the Terminator\u2019s parenting style!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you thought Arnold Schwarzenegger as the Terminator was terrifying, his role as a father is even more frightening. The former governor and ex-professional bodybuilder is now accusing parents of being too easy on their children\u2026 And his own parenting style just goes to show how serious he is! 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