From: Emy<\/p>\n
Subject: Did I Overreact by Walking Out on My Fianc\u00e9 After Hearing a Phone Call About Christmas Plans?<\/p>\n
I (29F) have been engaged to my fianc\u00e9 Mark (34M) for two years. We\u2019ve had a good relationship, but Christmas revealed something unexpected. I was excited about our first Christmas together, especially since Mark has a daughter, Ella (6F), from his previous marriage. I\u2019m childfree by choice but have bonded with Ella. I planned a Christmas Eve dinner for just the two of us before he spent Christmas Day with Ella.<\/p>\n
A week before, Mark told me he\u2019d spend Christmas with his ex-wife and Ella. He said it\u2019s a tradition for Ella\u2019s sake and assured me not to worry. I felt blindsided and hurt but stayed quiet. Then, on Christmas Eve, I overheard Mark\u2019s phone conversation with his ex. He said they had planned for him to stay at her house on Christmas Eve and exchange gifts with Ella, without me. He admitted that Jen felt \u201cweird\u201d about me being around, so he didn\u2019t tell me until the last minute to avoid a fight.<\/p>\n
I was devastated. I left and went to my sister\u2019s house. Mark has been blowing up my phone, claiming I ruined Christmas and accusing me of overreacting. Now, I\u2019m questioning myself. Am I wrong for walking out?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
From: Emy Subject: Did I Overreact by Walking Out on My Fianc\u00e9 After Hearing a Phone Call About Christmas Plans? I (29F) have been engaged to my fianc\u00e9 Mark (34M) for two years. We\u2019ve had a good relationship, but Christmas revealed something unexpected. I was excited about our first Christmas together, especially since Mark has […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23751","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23751","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23751"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23751\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23752,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23751\/revisions\/23752"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23751"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23751"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23751"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}