{"id":23019,"date":"2024-12-17T15:53:33","date_gmt":"2024-12-17T14:53:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=23019"},"modified":"2024-12-17T15:53:33","modified_gmt":"2024-12-17T14:53:33","slug":"i-banned-my-mil-from-my-babys-life-after-she-refused-babysitting-duties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=23019","title":{"rendered":"I Banned My MIL from My Baby\u2019s Life After She Refused Babysitting Duties"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My MIL wastes her day on Zumba and friend dates. I asked her to babysit our 2-year-old son while my husband and I work full-time. She declared, \u201cFull-time babysitting is not a grandma\u2019s job!\u201d My husband stayed silent. I banned her from seeing my baby and hired a nanny.<\/p>\n<p>Days later, the nanny called me in tears, panicked and trembling. I rushed home and fainted when I found my baby\u2019s crib empty. After a few minutes, I gathered my strength. I opened the closet and froze when I saw that all of my son\u2019s belongings were gone, as if he had vanished. The nanny explained that my MIL had forced her way in and taken my baby. I tried calling my MIL, but her phone was busy. When I called my husband, he sounded unbothered, saying, \u201cDon\u2019t worry, our baby is safe with her-she\u2019s his grandma, after all.\u201d Furious, I retrieved my son from my MIL\u2019s house. She defended herself, saying, \u201cYou have no right to keep my grandson away from me!\u201d Now, I\u2019m livid and at a loss.<\/p>\n<p>Did I overreact by banning her from seeing him? How do I handle this situation?<\/p>\n<p>Lenny<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My MIL wastes her day on Zumba and friend dates. I asked her to babysit our 2-year-old son while my husband and I work full-time. She declared, \u201cFull-time babysitting is not a grandma\u2019s job!\u201d My husband stayed silent. I banned her from seeing my baby and hired a nanny. Days later, the nanny called me [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23019"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23019\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23020,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23019\/revisions\/23020"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}