{"id":22513,"date":"2024-11-30T16:27:53","date_gmt":"2024-11-30T15:27:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=22513"},"modified":"2024-11-30T16:27:53","modified_gmt":"2024-11-30T15:27:53","slug":"my-mil-forbade-me-from-coming-to-thanksgiving-there-was-heinous-plot-behind-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=22513","title":{"rendered":"My MIL Forbade Me From Coming to Thanksgiving \u2013 There Was Heinous Plot Behind It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Subject: Am I the Bad Guy for Refusing to Go to My in-laws\u2019 Christmas Dinner?<\/p>\n<p>I need advice because I\u2019m completely lost. My husband, Mark, and I eloped six months ago, knowing his mom, Susan, wouldn\u2019t approve. She called it a disgrace, refused to speak to him, and even uninvited me from Thanksgiving. Mark didn\u2019t defend me, saying, \u201cIt\u2019s just Thanksgiving, you can spend it alone.\u201d So, I did.<\/p>\n<p>Then, on Thanksgiving, Mark called in a panic. Susan was having a meltdown, threatening to cancel the \u201cbig wedding\u201d she\u2019d been secretly planning unless I came. I was furious. \u201cMark, we eloped to avoid this! Why are you letting her control us?\u201d He just sobbed, \u201cShe\u2019s my mom. I can\u2019t let her be upset.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now, I\u2019m refusing to attend their Christmas dinner. I know I should be the \u201cbigger person,\u201d but I feel so hurt and betrayed. Am I wrong?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Subject: Am I the Bad Guy for Refusing to Go to My in-laws\u2019 Christmas Dinner? I need advice because I\u2019m completely lost. My husband, Mark, and I eloped six months ago, knowing his mom, Susan, wouldn\u2019t approve. She called it a disgrace, refused to speak to him, and even uninvited me from Thanksgiving. Mark didn\u2019t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22513"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22513\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23271,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22513\/revisions\/23271"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}