{"id":11894,"date":"2024-07-18T14:39:32","date_gmt":"2024-07-18T12:39:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=11894"},"modified":"2024-07-18T14:39:32","modified_gmt":"2024-07-18T12:39:32","slug":"bride-cant-get-her-wedding-dress-because-of-skin-color-prejudice-story-of-the-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=11894","title":{"rendered":"Bride Can\u2019t Get Her Wedding Dress Because of Skin Color Prejudice \u2014 Story of the Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As Allie plans her dream wedding, her vision board guides her every step. However, when searching for her wedding dress, she encounters prejudice due to her skin color.<\/p>\n<p>Allie flipped through bridal magazines, torn between her desire for cheesy pizza and her commitment to clean eating for glowing skin.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re perfect the way you are,\u201d her fiance, Scott, had said when she vetoed takeout until the wedding.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut I want that princess glow,\u201d she\u2019d teased him. Scott had suggested getting a tiara in that case and made her smile.<\/p>\n<p>Allie now ran her fingers through her hair. She recalled how she sat between her mother\u2019s legs as a kid, getting her hair conditioned and braided.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy do we have to do this? It hurts, Mom!\u201d little Allie would complain.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis way, your hair will grow long and smooth,\u201d her mom would reply.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/6-150.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"864\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11895\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/6-150.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/6-150-200x300.webp 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nFor illustration purposes only. | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n<p>Allie sighed. Her Pinterest vision board reflected her meticulous wedding planning, but the elusive perfect dress remained a stress point.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy stressed, Al?\u201d Scott asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBecause everything must be perfect,\u201d she replied. \u201cI still have to get my dress.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGo to the bridal boutique on Boulevard. You\u2019ll find what you need. Want me to come?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s bad luck, but do you think I\u2019d find the perfect dress there?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDefinitely. If not, we\u2019ll make it perfect. You\u2019ll have your perfect day.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOur perfect day,\u201d she grinned.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/5-154.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"384\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11896\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/5-154.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/5-154-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/5-154-446x297.webp 446w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nFor Illustration purposes only. | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n<p>Scott owned the boutique but wasn\u2019t a bridal expert. Allie closed her binder, deciding to bake eclairs. Wondering about adding them to the wedding menu, she called her mom.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI needed a break from wedding things,\u201d Allie explained. \u201cYou\u2019re flying this weekend, right?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI completely forgot,\u201d her mom admitted.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s okay, Mom. Be here for the final fitting; that\u2019s what counts.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShall I rush over?\u201d her mom offered.<\/p>\n<p>Allie hesitated, torn between wanting her mom\u2019s presence and sparing her stress.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSave the trip for the final fitting. I love you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll right, Peach. Love you too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/4-153.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"384\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11897\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/4-153.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/4-153-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/4-153-446x297.webp 446w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nFor illustration purposes only. | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n<p>Feeling a bit dejected after the call with her mom, Allie wished her scattered bridesmaids could join her fitting. She envisioned a scene with them in the boutique, sipping champagne on a velvet couch.<\/p>\n<p>As she experimented with eclairs, adding strawberries, Allie reflected on her obsession with a clean home. Working remotely as a graphic designer allowed her flexibility, creativity, and attention to detail \u2014 skills that also helped her in planning her wedding.<\/p>\n<p>She recalled how Scott was surprised when he saw her wedding vision board. It was mostly pastel with forest green bridesmaid dresses.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat happened to \u2018Scott, I like colors\u2019?\u201d he teased.<\/p>\n<p>Allie nervously explained her vision for a classy, casual, and bohemian vibe.<\/p>\n<p>Scott sensed Allie\u2019s stress, and he complimented her that she was doing everything perfectly.<\/p>\n<p>He happily participated when she involved him, like choosing the song for their first dance. In the kitchen at midnight, making grilled cheese sandwiches, Allie handed him the task.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019ll be fine with anything I choose?\u201d Scott grinned.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/3-156.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"350\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11898\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/3-156.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/3-156-300x182.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nFor Illustration purposes only. | Source: Unsplash<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJust keep it special and romantic,\u201d she advised.<\/p>\n<p>When the time came for the dress fitting, Scott offered to call ahead and prepare the boutique, but Allie insisted on an authentic experience.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you\u2019re sure,\u201d Scott said, pulling her close.<\/p>\n<p>Allie smiled, appreciating his support amidst the wedding chaos.<\/p>\n<p>As Allie left for the bridal boutique, Scott, determined to make her experience special, discreetly called Sandra, one of the managers. He emphasized the importance of treating all customers equally, maintaining the boutique\u2019s warm atmosphere, and ensuring the availability of the best dresses for an anonymous, significant visitor.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPour the champagne, keep the tissues ready, ask the stylists to weigh in on dress fittings politely and helpfully,\u201d Scott instructed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-151.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"382\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11899\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-151.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-151-300x199.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-151-446x297.webp 446w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nFor Illustration purposes only. | Source: Unsplash<\/p>\n<p>Allie, sitting in her car, decided to seek advice from her mom before entering. Her mother, playing Sudoku, offered timeless counsel about dressing for her body, paying attention to fabrics and colors, and watching the cleavage.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo you want Reece to throw a fit? Please watch the cleavage!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not dressing for my brother,\u201d Allie said. \u201cI\u2019m not even dressing for Scott. I\u2019m dressing for myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd that\u2019s the only way I\u2019d have it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOkay, Mom,\u201d she said, ending the call.<\/p>\n<p>Then she texted Scott: \u201cI\u2019m going in!\u201d He replied with several hearts and didn\u2019t say much, so she guessed he was busy in a meeting.<\/p>\n<p>Inside the boutique, Allie felt a mix of excitement and calmness. The scent of roses filled the air, and classical music played as she explored the elegant space. Summer, likely a manager, greeted her with a tight smile, but Sandra remained distant.<\/p>\n<p>Alone in her thoughts, Allie found a dress she loved \u2013 simple, with lace on the top and a flowing A-line bottom. As she held it up to admire, Sandra abruptly intervened, snatching the hanger away.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPlease don\u2019t touch the dress,\u201d Sandra instructed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy can\u2019t I touch it?\u201d Allie asked, bewildered.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOnce you have paid for it, you can try it on,\u201d Sandra said with a fake smile.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut that makes absolutely no sense,\u201d Allie said. \u201cIt might not even fit me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Allie watched as Sandra put the dress back on the rack.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s the way it is. It is our policy,\u201d Sandra stated with a fake smile before walking away.<\/p>\n<p>Allie scoffed, realizing Sandra\u2019s unreasonable behavior was rooted in prejudice. She knew Scott wouldn\u2019t endorse such policies and felt the sting of discrimination.<\/p>\n<p>Feeling defeated after Sandra\u2019s prejudiced treatment, Allie decided to take a walk to clear her head, treating herself to a donut. Upon returning home, she made dinner for Scott and decided not to disclose her unpleasant experience at the boutique.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI found my dress, picking it up tomorrow,\u201d she lied to Scott, who offered his card.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLet me at least sort out my wedding dress by myself,\u201d she insisted.<\/p>\n<p>The next morning, Allie focused on work before heading to the boutique. Wondering if Scott had chosen their first dance song, she imagined her wedding look as she drove. Upon arrival, she intended to pay for the dress promptly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHere you go,\u201d Allie told Sandra, placing $3500 on the counter.<\/p>\n<p>However, Sandra claimed the dress was now $ 5,000 due to an expired promotion, even though they had agreed on the lower price the day before. Allie felt defeated, realizing the treatment was likely influenced by her skin color.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly, she looked up toward the fitting rooms and saw a young woman waiting for another to come out. Her friend threw back the curtain and pushed her way out.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat do you think?\u201d the bride asked, showing off her dress.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s not bad, Bella. But I like the first one better,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis one definitely seems less pretentious, no? Which is what I wanted, to be honest!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Allie took a step forward and watched them. She didn\u2019t realize that Sandra had followed her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat does this mean?\u201d she asked Sandra. \u201cExplain to me how some people can try on dresses and others cannot?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThese girls are our regular customers,\u201d Sandra explained dismissively.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cExcuse me?\u201d Bella said. \u201cI\u2019m not a regular. This is my first time here! Please don\u2019t make me a divorcee. This is also my first marriage!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sandra laughed awkwardly. Allie could see that she was trying her hardest to protect herself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo, let\u2019s get this straight. You\u2019re not letting me try on this ridiculously overpriced dress, but you are also just lying straight to my face.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLook, don\u2019t make me\u2014\u201d Sandra began.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGet me the other manager now,\u201d Allie said, sitting on the couch.<\/p>\n<p>Sandra narrowed her eyes at Allie.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFine,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Bella called Sandra to take the dress that she had just changed out of.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo, how about a discount?\u201d Bella asked Sandra. \u201cYou know, because I\u2019m a regular customer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sandra gave them a stern look. \u201cNot on this dress, no,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Allie shook her head. She was definitely going to tell Scott all about this.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHello, my name is Martin,\u201d a man said next to Allie. \u201cI am the manager of this boutique. Well, the first-choice manager, anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHi,\u201d said Allie and stood up. \u201cI found a dress that I loved, and of course, I hoped to try it on. But your co-manager or employee, whatever she\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, yes, yes, I am aware of the situation. And I do apologize for this misunderstanding,\u201d Martin interrupted, offering a solution. He suggested having an employee, Irene, try on the dress for Allie.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy can\u2019t I just try my own dress on, just like the way the other girl did in front of me?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt would be much less risky, you know,\u201d Martin claimed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, Martin. I don\u2019t know,\u201d Allie retorted, frustrated with the absurdity.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor me,\u201d Martin said. \u201cIt will be less risky for me, the boutique, and the dress.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Irene enthusiastically offered to try on the dress, and despite Allie\u2019s reluctance, she eventually agreed to the unusual arrangement. Why? Because it was the dress she wanted for her wedding, and she knew these people wouldn\u2019t let her try it on.<\/p>\n<p>Allie watched Irene model the dress, realizing there was a size difference. She agreed to provide her measurements on her own because Sandra refused to measure her. Of course, the reason was Allie\u2019s skin color.<\/p>\n<p>Three weeks later, Allie returned to the boutique with Scott, who was waiting outside. Irene appeared in the dress, but the dress looked identical to how it looked on the day Allie chose it. And judging by how it fit Irene, there were no alterations!<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t know if I like the dress,\u201d she said. \u201cIt\u2019s really hard for me to tell since Irene is a different body size and type compared to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat are you implying here?\u201d Irene asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am not implying anything, Irene. I\u2019m just saying that you and I have different measurements, so it\u2019s a different situation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut we made it strictly to the measurements you gave us,\u201d Sandra chipped in.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is also why it would have been more logical for me to try the dress on,\u201d Allie said. \u201cI don\u2019t want to pay for this!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Martin, growing frustrated, emphasized the store\u2019s efforts in alterations and accommodating Allie\u2019s requests. He insisted that not paying for the dress would be a loss for the store, something he couldn\u2019t allow.<\/p>\n<p>Allie, feeling overwhelmed, confronted Martin about the discriminatory treatment. As tensions rose, he accused her of planning to steal the dress.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wasn\u2019t going to steal anything!\u201d Allie exclaimed.<\/p>\n<p>Martin responded callously, stating, \u201cAll of you are potential thieves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll of you?\u201d Allie repeated. \u201cNow you\u2019re not even trying to hide your racism.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Their argument escalated, leading Martin to give Allie an ultimatum \u2013 leave, or he\u2019d call the police. Reluctantly, she chose to leave.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd don\u2019t ever show up here again!\u201d Martin shouted, calling security.<\/p>\n<p>Right then, Scott arrived on the scene. Martin falsely claimed Allie was attempting theft, and Sandra joined in, stating they had already dealt with the situation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, honey. Can you imagine I won\u2019t be allowed in your store anymore?\u201d Allie said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWoah, woah, woah. What?\u201d Scott asked. He looked from Allie to his employees and then back to Allie.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan someone please explain why my fianc\u00e9e cannot get her dress? Or why is she being threatened never to enter my store again?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe also said a lot of nasty things to me. They all did. And they wouldn\u2019t even let me try a dress on,\u201d Allie said. Now that Scott was here, she felt a lot braver.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFianc\u00e9e?\u201d Martin asked. \u201cBut she didn\u2019t tell us that\u2026We didn\u2019t know.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou didn\u2019t ask anything about me or my wedding. You let my skin color do the talking.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have no words to express how sorry I am, Allie,\u201d Scott said. \u201cI created this wedding boutique to help every woman feel special. And then my fianc\u00e9e came in, and you made her feel the complete opposite,\u201d Scott sighed and fired his employees.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNow, go. Go pick any dress you want. I\u2019ll wait outside,\u201d Scott told Allie.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, we can do that tomorrow. Let\u2019s go home,\u201d Allie smiled, relieved to leave the distressing situation behind.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As Allie plans her dream wedding, her vision board guides her every step. However, when searching for her wedding dress, she encounters prejudice due to her skin color. Allie flipped through bridal magazines, torn between her desire for cheesy pizza and her commitment to clean eating for glowing skin. \u201cYou\u2019re perfect the way you are,\u201d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11894"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11900,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11894\/revisions\/11900"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}