{"id":11589,"date":"2024-07-15T18:59:41","date_gmt":"2024-07-15T16:59:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=11589"},"modified":"2024-07-15T18:59:41","modified_gmt":"2024-07-15T16:59:41","slug":"i-found-out-that-my-daughter-in-law-sends-her-kids-to-visit-me-as-a-punishment-so-i-talked-them-into-my-plan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/?p=11589","title":{"rendered":"I Found Out That My Daughter-in-law Sends Her Kids to Visit Me as a Punishment \u2014 So I Talked Them Into My Plan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When Gina finds out that her daughter-in-law uses her and her home as a form of punishment for her grandchildren, she gets upset. But instead of lashing out, she ensures that her grandchildren feel safe and at home with her. Later, she teaches her daughter-in-law a lesson that she won\u2019t forget.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe are only here because you ate that candy that Mom was saving for Dad, Jacob. Mom told you not to!\u201d I overheard my grandson, Thomas, say to his younger brother.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/fecb9f0417728d6aa1688335e32c865463b7c285a9c2f30fa6e82cc922b59d13.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"323\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11590\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/fecb9f0417728d6aa1688335e32c865463b7c285a9c2f30fa6e82cc922b59d13.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/fecb9f0417728d6aa1688335e32c865463b7c285a9c2f30fa6e82cc922b59d13-300x168.webp 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nA box of chocolates | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n<p>I stopped mid-step between the fridge and the counter in the kitchen, straining to hear more. My heart sank at the possibility that I\u2019d heard Thomas correctly because that meant that my grandchildren hadn\u2019t really wanted to come here.<\/p>\n<p>Slowly, I walked closer to them, trying to act nonchalant.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/af3561fe38b3406d536fec725d88238d9ba2abe2959d32077197a8d857ecc2c0.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"669\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11591\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/af3561fe38b3406d536fec725d88238d9ba2abe2959d32077197a8d857ecc2c0.webp 375w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/af3561fe38b3406d536fec725d88238d9ba2abe2959d32077197a8d857ecc2c0-168x300.webp 168w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><br \/>\nA close-up of two little boys | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat do you mean by that, sweetheart?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n<p>Thomas looked up, eyes wide with the fear of being caught.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUh, nothing, Grandma,\u201d he said quickly.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/bea6b71cc1f91b8133f97e3bdeb3fe30cb335b6210ade00fff70e24bed385a09.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"576\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11592\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/bea6b71cc1f91b8133f97e3bdeb3fe30cb335b6210ade00fff70e24bed385a09.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/bea6b71cc1f91b8133f97e3bdeb3fe30cb335b6210ade00fff70e24bed385a09-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/bea6b71cc1f91b8133f97e3bdeb3fe30cb335b6210ade00fff70e24bed385a09-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/bea6b71cc1f91b8133f97e3bdeb3fe30cb335b6210ade00fff70e24bed385a09-350x350.webp 350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nA smiling old woman | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, really, it\u2019s okay,\u201d I pressed gently, kneeling to their level. \u201cYou can tell me anything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Thomas glanced at Jacob, who was nervously chewing on his lip while he clutched his toy tightly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWell, every time we do something naughty, or we ask for something that we shouldn\u2019t\u2026\u201d Thomas hesitated.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, go on,\u201d I pressed gently.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/6935eac5d6fbb789dc519374f73070b14dc815656cc22317ad4f972aa07a5132.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"669\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11593\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/6935eac5d6fbb789dc519374f73070b14dc815656cc22317ad4f972aa07a5132.webp 375w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/6935eac5d6fbb789dc519374f73070b14dc815656cc22317ad4f972aa07a5132-168x300.webp 168w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><br \/>\nA smiling little boy | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMom says that she\u2019ll send us to \u2018that witch\u2019s house.&#8217;\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat witch?\u201d I repeated, stunned.<\/p>\n<p>My daughter-in-law, Amanda, had never been warm towards me, but to tell the kids such stories? It felt like a knife to the heart. I had always tried to make my home a safe and welcoming place for my grandchildren.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/10729ecce3a25499ef303a0ea60aab2654839ddabe50cc545c53b5ae6aa9fb6a.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"563\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11594\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/10729ecce3a25499ef303a0ea60aab2654839ddabe50cc545c53b5ae6aa9fb6a.webp 375w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/10729ecce3a25499ef303a0ea60aab2654839ddabe50cc545c53b5ae6aa9fb6a-200x300.webp 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><br \/>\nA close-up of a woman | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n<p>But what was this?<\/p>\n<p>To find out that Amanda was poisoning their minds against me?<\/p>\n<p>I took a deep breath, trying to steady my voice. My heart sank, wondering what my grandchildren thought of me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh, honey,\u201d I said. \u201cI never wanted you to think of my home as a punishment. If you don\u2019t want to come here, you don\u2019t have to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d351b77f82e0222a6e6e1625903a12bef84574853a5035d70caddfea76165fe0.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"576\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11595\" srcset=\"https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d351b77f82e0222a6e6e1625903a12bef84574853a5035d70caddfea76165fe0.webp 576w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d351b77f82e0222a6e6e1625903a12bef84574853a5035d70caddfea76165fe0-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d351b77f82e0222a6e6e1625903a12bef84574853a5035d70caddfea76165fe0-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/newzdiscover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/d351b77f82e0222a6e6e1625903a12bef84574853a5035d70caddfea76165fe0-350x350.webp 350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><br \/>\nA sad old woman | Source: Midjourney<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut we like it here!\u201d Thomas exclaimed quickly. \u201cMom just told us that we can be cursed here. And isn\u2019t being cursed a bad thing? It\u2019s scary.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This was too much. This was beyond ridiculous. I could overlook Amanda\u2019s coldness towards me, but involving the kids was a step too far. This had become personal.<\/p>\n<p>I needed a plan to remind Amanda about family values and to truly show her that I wasn\u2019t going to let her undermine my relationship with my grandkids.<\/p>\n<p>The next time the boys came over, I greeted them with a warm smile and an air of mystery.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCome on, let\u2019s have some pie,\u201d I told them. \u201cBut I also have a secret to share with you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They looked at me with wide eyes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat is it, Grandma?\u201d Jacob asked, his voice full of curiosity.<\/p>\n<p>I lowered my voice to a conspiratorial whisper.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour mom was right,\u201d I said. \u201cI am a witch.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Thomas gasped, and Jake\u2019s eyes grew wider.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut don\u2019t worry,\u201d I added quickly. \u201cI would never hurt you. In fact, I\u2019m going to teach you magic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cReally?\u201d Thomas asked, his voice tinged with excitement and a bit of skepticism.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, really,\u201d I declared, leading them to the living room where I had set up a makeshift wizard\u2019s workshop.<\/p>\n<p>We spent the afternoon watching YouTube tutorials on magic tricks, practicing simple sleight-of-hand, and creating \u2018potions\u2019 with food coloring, baking soda, and herbs and spices that I had around the kitchen.<\/p>\n<p>The boys were completely enthralled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGrandma, this is so cool!\u201d Jacob exclaimed as his little \u2018potion\u2019 fizzed and bubbled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m glad you think so,\u201d I said, ruffling his hair. \u201cYou\u2019re both very talented wizards.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As the days went on, the boys began to look forward to their visits with me. My son, Brian, phoned me and told me all about it one day.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t know what you\u2019re doing, Mom,\u201d he said. \u201cBut the boys absolutely love being there. They keep asking Amanda or myself to drop them off.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m so glad, honey,\u201d I said, absentmindedly.<\/p>\n<p>I had already told the boys not to mention anything about our tricks or potion-making to their parents. It wasn\u2019t that I was keeping it a secret or anything. I just wanted to wait for the perfect time to reveal it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat do you guys do?\u201d Brian asked curiously.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe spend time together, and I let them be kids,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p>One day just as Amanda came to pick the boys up, they begged their mother to let them stay over for the night.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, boys,\u201d she said sternly. \u201cWe have an early start tomorrow and I can\u2019t come back to this side of town.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But the boys continued to whine and plead.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh, I guess you\u2019re being punished by being taken home,\u201d I said, my voice dripping with sarcasm as I looked directly at Amanda.<\/p>\n<p>She paled, recognizing my words as her own.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s not what I meant when I said it, Gina,\u201d she stuttered.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLook, we can have our disagreements, Amanda, but don\u2019t you dare bring the kids into this. And why would you tell them stories about me? That\u2019s completely uncalled for.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She looked down, guilt and shame washing over her soft features.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI didn\u2019t realize what I said,\u201d Amanda went on. \u201cI just said it out of anger because the boys were being rowdy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI just want them to feel safe and loved here,\u201d I continued. \u201cCan we agree on that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My daughter-in-law nodded, tears brimming in her eyes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, of course, Gina. I\u2019m sorry, really.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cApology accepted,\u201d I said softly. \u201cBut now we need to move forward, for their sake.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amanda and I found a tentative peace after that, and the boys\u2019 visits continued without the dark cloud of fear hanging over them. Our time together was filled with laughter and joy, the air of magic making each visit special.<\/p>\n<p>One evening, when the boys were spending the night with me, allowing Brian and Amanda to go on a date night, I tucked them into bed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGrandma, are you really a witch?\u201d Jacob asked quietly.<\/p>\n<p>I smiled and brushed a strand of hair from his forehead.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, my sweet boy,\u201d I said. \u201cI\u2019m not. But magic is real if you believe in it. It\u2019s in the love we share, the fun we have, and the memories we make.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI like your kind of magic, Grandma,\u201d Jacob said, half-asleep. \u201cIt\u2019s less scary than the curses.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI love you both, very much,\u201d I said, turning off the light.<\/p>\n<p>The next morning, as I prepared breakfast, the boys ran into the kitchen, still buzzing with the excitement of their latest \u201cmagical\u201d discoveries.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGrandma, can we make more potions today?\u201d Jacob asked, his eyes roaming around the kitchen to see what I had on the counters.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOf course,\u201d I laughed. \u201cBut first, how about some pancakes?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As we sat down to eat, there was a knock at the door. Amanda stood there, looking hesitant but hopeful.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGood morning,\u201d she said softly. \u201cI was hoping to join you for breakfast.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCome on in,\u201d I told her. \u201cWe\u2019re just about to start.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As we ate, Amanda watched the boys chatter excitedly about their magical adventures. She smiled, a genuine warmth in her eyes that I hadn\u2019t seen before.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThank you,\u201d she said quietly, as the boys ran off to play outside. \u201cFor everything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s all for them,\u201d I replied, meeting her gaze. \u201cThey deserve to feel loved and happy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd I\u2019m sorry for what I said before,\u201d she said. \u201cI was wrong to make your home seem like the punishment den. It\u2019s far from it. It\u2019s actually warmer and more comfortable than our own.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In the weeks that followed, Amanda tried harder with me. She tried to bring the boys over as much as possible, always bringing baked treats along with her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe\u2019s trying, Mom,\u201d Brian said one day when he came to fetch the boys. \u201cAnd you can see that she\u2019s excited to come here and spend time with you and the boys. It\u2019s a big deal for her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I smiled at my son.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s about time,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Gina finds out that her daughter-in-law uses her and her home as a form of punishment for her grandchildren, she gets upset. But instead of lashing out, she ensures that her grandchildren feel safe and at home with her. 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